Welcome to Decoretti Mom
Learn · Grow · Heal
Decoretti Mom is a place where I share my personal life stories and the knowledge I’ve gathered through both painful struggles and moments of strength. If my younger self had known all this, I could have avoided much abuse and suffering. That is why I write — to inspire, empower, and remind you that knowledge is power.
Out of my life experiences, I have created a series of books. Each one is written to inform, support, and encourage healing. These books can be downloaded directly here on this website, so you always have guidance at your side.
Coming soon....

Narcissism ABC Guide
Learn, Grow, and Break Free — including a true life story full of hope and strength
What if you had the words to understand what really happened to you?
What if knowledge itself could be the key to breaking free?
The Narcissism ABC Guide takes you on a journey through the A–Z of narcissistic abuse. Each letter reveals essential terms, tactics, and truths that expose how narcissists operate — from gaslighting and manipulation to trauma bonding and control. With every page, you’ll gain clarity, language, and the validation you deserve.
This book is more than definitions. Alongside the ABC, Rachel shares her raw and personal story — surviving a narcissistic parent, abusive relationships, and years of grief. Her truth is not just about pain, but about survival, resilience, and hope.
Inside this book you will find:
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Clear explanations of narcissistic behaviors, tactics, and patterns.
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Personal stories that show how these patterns play out in real life.
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Empowering insights to help you recognize the abuse, heal, and rebuild.
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A reminder that you are not alone — there is strength and freedom ahead.
Whether you are just beginning to question your past, or are already on your path to healing, this guide is here to give you the knowledge and power you need to break free.

Natural Pregnancy ABC Guide
Prepare, Trust, and Embrace the Secret of a Gentle Birth
Pregnancy is more than a medical event — it is a sacred journey. With the right knowledge, preparation, and mindset, birth can be natural, empowering, and even painless.
The Natural Pregnancy ABC Guide is your step-by-step companion through every stage of pregnancy and birth. From understanding your body to preparing your mind, this book reveals powerful truths and forgotten wisdom that every mother deserves to know.
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How to prepare yourself physically and emotionally for birth.
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The secret behind painless birth and how to embrace it with confidence.
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The 12 steps to a healthy baby — practical and holistic guidance for expecting mothers.
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A deep dive into the Lotus Birth technique, including rarely shared history and valuable insights.
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Knowledge that empowers you to trust your body, honor your baby, and create a positive birth experience.
With compassion, clarity, and life-changing knowledge, Rachel shares what every woman should know before giving birth — so you can step into motherhood with strength, peace, and joy.

ABC: Preparing for Chemotherapy
Practical Steps, Emotional Strength, and Hope from a Survivor of Hodgkin Cancer
Hearing the words “You have stage 3 cancer” changes everything in an instant. Suddenly life becomes a whirlwind of tests, treatments, and uncertainty — and the path ahead feels overwhelming.
ABC: Preparing for Chemotherapy is both a guide and a true survival story. Rachel shares her raw experience of facing Hodgkin cancer during the global pandemic, going through months of chemotherapy while raising three children alone, and even surviving COVID while her immune system was at its weakest.
This book offers more than her story — it provides practical advice and emotional support for anyone preparing for chemotherapy:
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What to expect before starting chemo — and how to prepare your body and mind.
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How to cope with treatment side effects while still showing up for daily life.
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Parenting through illness — finding strength when your children depend on you.
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Tips for navigating isolation, fear, and uncertainty.
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The hardest part of all — recovery after treatment, and learning to rebuild your strength.
Through honesty and hope, Rachel shows that even in the darkest chapters, healing and resilience are possible. This book is not just about surviving cancer — it’s about finding yourself again after the storm.